Wendie is very kind and easy to talk to. She always follows up with great suggestions and related materials that help with the discussed topics. I look forward to our sessions knowing she will help steer me in the right direction.
Wendie Clemens, LPC
Experienced mental health professional
Provides online counseling through BetterHelp
At a glance
Wendie is an experienced, licensed Mental Health Professional who specializes in affordable online therapy offered through our partner, BetterHelp.
- 5.0 stars
- Clients are very satisfied with Wendie. View 61 reviews
- Great news, Wendie is accepting new clients!
- She is normally fully-booked.
- Speaks English
- Offers Telehealth visits
- Licensed in Oklahoma
Recent reviews
Wendie is such a kind and understanding person. I had religious trauma from a religion that she knew nothing about. She was willing to learn new things in order to better help me. I know that I can talk to her about anything and she is able to fully see me and validate my feelings and position. Her empathy is amazing!
More about Wendie
- 20 years' experience
- Female
- LPC
Hi, my name is Wendie Clemens. I’ll start out with giving you some information on my history and experience, then I’ll move on to explaining my approach to therapy. I have a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family therapy and I’ve been a licensed therapist for 20 years; I’m licensed through the state of Oklahoma as a Licensed Professional Counselor and my license number is 3401. I’ve worked with several different populations, providing outpatient individual, family, and group therapy to adults, children, and adolescents; providing individual and family therapy to children and adolescents in the foster care system and their birth families, as well as providing supportive services to the foster families; and providing individual and group therapy for court-involved persons. I have experience working with clients who sought treatment for problems related to anxiety, depression, trauma, bipolar disorder, substance use, family conflict, difficult relationships, issues related to changes in life, and other severe and chronic mental health issues. Over the last few years, I’ve also had extensive experience providing services through virtual means such as iPad, computer, phone, etc. so this service platform is comfortable for me. For 15 years of my career as a licensed therapist, I worked in community mental health; the majority of my clients there not only struggled with severe, life-long mental health issues but also struggled with other issues such as isolation, poverty, lack of resources, and the stigma of living with a mental illness. Working in that setting could be extremely demanding but those years played a significant role in my growth as a therapist (and a person) and the experience of serving those clients, as well as having the honor of sharing their lives, was overall richly rewarding for me.
In my view, the relationship that develops between a therapist and client is part of the healing process and I do my best to develop and maintain a positive, healthy relationship with clients. You’re the one looking for help, so I look to you to determine what we discuss in therapy sessions, what you’d like to accomplish in therapy, and how you’ll know you’ve finished therapy. My part is to help you sort things out so you can see problems more clearly, understand yourself better, and feel more comfortable in making decisions about your life. I’m also here to help you find and learn different tools you can use to accomplish that. With that being said, I also recognize there will be times I may need to give you a little push to discuss something you’ve been avoiding, to express thoughts or feelings that may be difficult for you, or even to revisit your past in order to work through issues that may still be affecting you. All of that requires trust and a willingness to be vulnerable on your part, which is why I tend to emphasize the importance of the therapeutic relationship. Even though I value our relationship, I’m also human and I realize that I may misinterpret something you say, misunderstand what you’re trying to communicate, or unintentionally offend you or hurt your feelings. I don’t plan on this happening, but if it does, please let me know!! (No need to worry about being too blunt or hurting my feelings – I need to know these things so your therapy is helpful and it will help me grow and be a better therapist.) Most things we’ll be able to work through and that will help me understand you better – it can also help you as misunderstandings and unintentional slights happen in all relationships and you can use bumps in our relationship as practice in working things out in the “real world.” Regarding the technical side of things, I use tools and techniques primarily from Cognitive-Behavioral based therapies, Person-Centered Therapy, and I incorporate mindfulness, distress tolerance, and emotional regulation tools from Dialectical Behavior Therapy. I’ll also throw this out – if at any point in our work together you find that we’re just not relating, you’ve gone as far as you can with me, or I’m just not the right therapist for you, don’t hesitate to discuss this with me as it will be no problem for you to be matched with another therapist that may be a better fit for you.
This is just a general introduction so you have some feel for who I am and how I approach therapy; there is more specific information about meetings, confidentiality, etc. contained in the Informed Consent in the member information from already provided by the platform.
Specialties
Stress
Anxiety
Trauma and abuse
Bipolar disorder
Depression
Coping with life changes
Addictions
Relationship issues
Family conflicts
Grief
Intimacy-related issues
Parenting issues
Anger management
Mood disorders
Panic disorder and panic attacks
Post-traumatic stress
Social anxiety and phobia
Treatment Approaches
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Licenses
Wendie Clemens's National Provider Identifier (NPI) is 1821219932.
- LPC · Oklahoma · 03401 · Expires June 2025
About online counseling
- Affordable.
- Pay a low flat fee.
- Convenient.
- Do it at your own time and at your own pace. Communicate whenever you feel it's needed.
- Available now.
- There is no waiting list and no calls to make. Simply fill out a short questionnaire and send your first message.
Online counseling, also known as teletherapy, is a method of delivering mental health services through digital means such as video conferencing, phone calls, or messaging platforms. It can be an ideal option for individuals who have difficulty accessing traditional therapy due to geographical distance, time constraints, or personal preferences like privacy and comfort. Many people find it easier to open up from the familiarity of their own space.
Teletherapy has been found to be highly effective, with studies showing that it can produce similar outcomes to in-person therapy, particularly for issues like anxiety, depression, and PTSD. The flexibility and accessibility it offers make it a valuable alternative to conventional therapy settings.
Reviews for Wendie Clemens
All reviews have been submitted by clients after seeing the provider.
Overall rating:
Wendie is very kind and easy to talk to. She always follows up with great suggestions and related materials that help with the discussed topics. I look forward to our sessions knowing she will help steer me in the right direction.
Wendie is such a kind and understanding person. I had religious trauma from a religion that she knew nothing about. She was willing to learn new things in order to better help me. I know that I can talk to her about anything and she is able to fully see me and validate my feelings and position. Her empathy is amazing!
She listens and I feel heard. She’s recommended a good book to help me continue work in between our appointments.
Wendie has been such a great help to me during this time of my life. She always has suggestions to help ease a pain point!
She is very supportive and thoughtful!
She is amazing!
Helping me in ways I never knew I needed in my life. Quick to help with books, study work, tools, techniques…. I've only discovered therapy within the last year of my life, but it’s changed me for the better.
She is kind and helpful. She is insightful offering guidance and re sources .
Wendie is great, listens to me and has good ideas on dealing with the issues.
I felt like I was actually understood, she was able to clarify my experiences, responses, and what healing looks like over time.
Wendie has helped me have clarity in my next steps forward
I love and appreciate that Wendie checks in on me when she hasn’t heard from me in a while.
Wendie is a sweetheart! I have already benefited from having her as a therapist and I’ve only been a member for a few weeks. I only wish BetterHelp accepted my primary insurance for payment.
Wendie is so sweet and such a good listener. It comforts me to know that I can come to her when I need to talk and also when I need advice.
She is an effective communicator and so kind. Have been reading some books that she recommended. Very helpful!!
Wendie has made me feel comfortable from the moment I meant her. I truly feel like she gets me. I have taken away something very useful from each session . I’m thankful for her!
I absolutely love Wendie! She is so open to learning about new things and thinking outside the box. She has always been empathetic and a comfort to talk to. Over the past few months we have addressed a number of topics: faith crisis and religious trauma, suicide of a loved one, and childhood traumas. Wendie is very understanding, and has helped me process current issues and my past trauma. I highly recommend her.
Wendie is great. She's very helpful and I appreciate her input. I really like using the chat function for our sessions.
I like that she listens and offers feedback and homework.
Wendie is great. She heard me out with the problems in my thinking patterns that I wanted to address and she is helping me relearn different ways of thinking. It’s been so helpful this far and I can’t wait to see how it helps in the future.
She is great
Wendy has been great! She listens, encourages me while also making great suggestions to help me with addition approaches to help me identify and solve my problems.
Wendie is the best!!
Best therapist I have ever had and I don’t say that lightly. Don’t know what I would have done, she really cares.
Wendie Clemens is a true gem. She has gone above board and beyond to help me. She has researched my questions in her own time and giving me valuable help. I have recommended her to other people and I will continue to recommend her!
Wendi is amazing and by far the best therapist I have ever worked with
She has helped me normalize after nearly an entire life of being in a state of constant fear/flight. Definitely recommend :)
i love wendy! she is the best therapist i have ever had. would highly recommend her to anyone.
I love Wendie! She has helped me through a very rough time in my life. She is absolutely wonderful!
Wendie has been extremely thoughtful and supportive thus far.
Wendi listens and has provided good feedback on issues I'm dealing with. I feel comfortable talking to her.
She is very good at working with your schedule
Wendie has been a God send to me. She takes the time to really understand me and help me understand myself. She challenges me in a kind way to see where my behaviors need to be changed. She listens when I just need to talk. She has an intuition that most do not. I would recommend her to anyone. 10/10
Wendi is very good at listening and helping you figure out some rooted causes. Just by listening and allowing myself to talk it out I discovered a lot I am thoroughly impressed with her.
Wendie is a great listener and companionate. She is easy to talk to and always has some comments to either make you feel better or to bring a new perspective on a situation. I enjoy our sessions together.
When I requested a specific type of therapist I requested a female who was close to my age or older and I am 57 who is a Christian and would value my beliefs and would be open to using those beliefs in my therapy. Wendie is truly a cherished blessing. She checks in with me daily when she responds to my journals because I have them set to go directly to her which is an option, and when I send her verses she responds in kind. She does not push religion but she reflects it. She is wise beyond her years, she is gentle, she is kind, and when I excitedly asked her if she was open to trying to use cognitive behavioral therapy with me she told me that is her preferred form of therapy. I was very pleased. She is a blessing to me.
Wendi is a very experienced and wonderful therapist. I know I can always reach out and she gives me the space to talk through whatever my needs are.
Wendi is fantastic! Finding that safe person and place is essential when you unpack the heavy stuff! Wendi is your person!
Wendie is great! She is very attentive and gives advisement well. I always appreciate being able to speak with her.
I have had a very wonderful experience with better help. I’m so glad I found y’all and Wendie! Ty so much!
Wendie has good insight. She listens to what you’re saying and she has some good advice. She is down to earth and on my level, she is easy to talk to.
what a kind gem!
Absolutely wonderful to work with and has legitimately changed the trajectory of my life in less than six months. Cannot recommend enough
On one answer I clicked strongly disagree when it should have been strongly agree
I have only had one session with Wendie, but in that session she both, calmed my nerves regarding the session itself. But also was so receptive to everything I was saying and supportive. I was nervous so talking too much, and she was so wonderful and never made me feel like I was overwhelming her in the details. I would highly recommend her!
Wendie is an incredible human. Compassionate, patient, understanding, wise, strong and I am grateful for her faith. Can't thank her enough for being who she is and doing what she does, I know it can't be easy but she does it with such grace, wish more of us could be more like her.
Amazing
Wendie is one of the most genuine and caring people I have ever met! She listened to all my concerns and she offered great advice for the things is was dealing with. I know that her help was instrumental in me making cognitive connections that fast-tracked my ability to heal some serous childhood and family or origin trauma. She also gave me the great support and direction during the most painful marriage issue that I have ever experienced. Wendie is a gem and I highly recommend her to anyone that wants help from someone that knows what they are doing.
Wendie was great! She was sweet and gentle and had a calming presence.
She has givin me the tools to deal with my issues
Wendie is very easy to talk to and a great listener!
Wendie is easy to talk to, stays very focused and attentive to what you are saying. She comes up with solutions and is open to your suggestions. A very good therapist.
Wendie is a great therapist. She listens very thoroughly. She is able to help provide me with the tools I need to work through past and daily issues.
Wendie has helped me in so many ways. LOVE HER.
Wendy actually listens and she is very easy to talk to.
Wendi is a fantastic therapist who helps provide a great environment to work through any issues you may have. So happy to have the ability to work with her
I feel comfortable talking to her
she has been great! its more like having a good friend to talk with than a counselor but yet she does use her skills to help me understand the things i am going thru. she even gives me papers to work thru my issues. i am extremely happy with her.
A great help in my mental well-being. Would recommend to anyone and everyone
She has a wonderful beautiful woman, she has a beautiful soul and knows how to help people. I wish I could continue on with her my life depends on her I just can’t afford it
Very good listener and always offers supportive feedback.
Frequently asked questions
Does Wendie Clemens offer telehealth visits?
Yes. Wendie Clemens works with clients by exchanging messages, chatting live, speaking over the phone, or video conferencing based on what works for the client at that particular time.
What language(s) does Wendie Clemens speak?
Wendie Clemens speaks English.
How many years of experience does Wendie Clemens have?
Wendie Clemens has 20 years of experience.
Where is Wendie Clemens licensed to practice?
Wendie Clemens is licensed to practice in Oklahoma.
Does Wendie Clemens accept clients outside of the United States?
No, Wendie Clemens does not accept clients outside of the United States.
Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?
Numerous studies support the effectiveness of online platforms in facilitating life changes. For instance, research published by JMIR Publications, conducted by teams from the University of Berkeley, UCSF, and SF General Hospital, found that "users of BetterHelp experienced significantly reduced depression symptom severity after engaging with the platform."
What treatment approaches does Wendie Clemens offer?
Wendie Clemens offers clients Client-Centered Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).
How can I communicate with Wendie Clemens?
Wendie Clemens can be engaged in any one of four ways: (1) Exchanging messages, (2) chatting live, (3) speaking over the phone, or (4) video conferencing. You can use different ways at different times as you wish, based on your needs, availability, and convenience.
How do I get started with Wendie Clemens?
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