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Dr. Lou Bordisso, LMFT

Experienced mental health professional

Provides online counseling through BetterHelp

At a glance

Lou is an experienced, licensed Mental Health Professional who specializes in affordable online therapy offered through our partner, BetterHelp.

5.0 stars
Clients are very satisfied with Lou. View 41 reviews
Speaks English
Offers Telehealth visits
Licensed in California

Recent reviews

I have been matched with Dr Bordisso for some time now and he is knowledgeable and understanding.

Reviewed December 2024

Without fail, I leave our session enabled with a new idea or tool to move forward. Dr Lou always provides at least one nugget of advice or piece of information that I can immediately apply. I always feel like he has listened to me, understands my core values, and then shines a light on a doable next step.

Reviewed December 2024

More about Lou

  • 35 years' experience
  • Male
  • LMFT

Lou A. Bordisso, Ed.D. has been licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist since 1987. He graduated from California State University with a B.A. in social welfare, the University of San Francisco with an M.A. in marriage and family counseling, and Ed.D. in Educational Psychology and Franciscan School of Theology at the Graduate Theological Union with an M.Div.

His professional profile includes, but is not limited to, Employee Assistance Program Administrator for a government program; Outpatient Supervisor for insurance firms, Outpatient Supervisor for Forensic Mental Health for a government program; Hospice Spiritual and Pastoral Care; Substance Abuse, Process Addictions, and Co-dependency Counselor for various Inpatient and Outpatient treatment facilities; Social Service provider among populations underserved; LGBTQ (GAY MEN), Sexuality, and Sexual Orientation Behavioral Health in private practice.

Dr. Bordisso has a reputation for being a warm, compassionate, and empathetic provider with a listening ear and caring heart. His counseling and therapy modalities include, but are not limited to, supportive therapies; existential/philosophical life issues, client-centered counseling; spiritual and/or pastoral care concerns; LGBTQ (GAY MEN) and sexuality issues and concerns; work/employee-related issues and problem-solving utilizing an Employee Assistance Program modality; cognitive-behavioral orientation; Early-stage Alzheimer's, Mild Cognitive Impairment and related memory issues and caregiving concerns, all according to assessment and counseling modality needed, given preferences due to presenting issues.

Specialties

Stress Anxiety LGBT Relationship issues Grief Depression Addictions Family conflicts Intimacy-related issues Self esteem Career difficulties Coping with life changes Aging and geriatric issues Avoidant personality BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture Body image Cancer Caregiver issues and stress Co-morbidity Codependency Commitment issues Communication problems Dependent personality Divorce and separation Emptiness Family of origin issues Family problems Forgiveness Gender dysphoria Guilt and shame HIV / AIDS Hospice and end-of-life counseling Isolation / loneliness Life purpose Men's issues Midlife crisis Prejudice and discrimination Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling) Self-love Sex addiction Sexuality Social anxiety and phobia Workplace issues Young adult issues

Treatment Approaches

  • Client-Centered Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Existential Therapy
  • Mindfulness Therapy
  • Solution-Focused Therapy

Licenses

Dr. Lou Bordisso's National Provider Identifier (NPI) is 1295991602.

  • LMFT · California · 22768 · Expires March 2026

About online counseling

Affordable.
Pay a low flat fee.
Convenient.
Do it at your own time and at your own pace. Communicate whenever you feel it's needed.
Available now.
There is no waiting list and no calls to make. Simply fill out a short questionnaire and send your first message.

Online counseling, sometimes called teletherapy, refers to talk therapy delivered remotely through digital platforms, such as video calls, phone calls, or chat. It can be a great option for people who face barriers to traditional face-to-face therapy, such as those living in remote areas, individuals with mobility issues, or people with busy schedules that make it difficult to attend in-person sessions.

Teletherapy also offers greater convenience and flexibility, allowing clients to access care from the comfort of their homes. Research shows that the treatment outcomes with online counseling are often just as effective as with traditional therapy, providing a viable alternative for individuals seeking mental health support.

Reviews for Dr. Lou Bordisso

All reviews have been submitted by clients after seeing the provider.

Overall rating:

5.0

41 reviews

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Clients mention: Great Helpful Knowledgeable Listens Professional Thank you The best Caring Easy Genuine

I have been matched with Dr Bordisso for some time now and he is knowledgeable and understanding.

Reviewed December 2024

Without fail, I leave our session enabled with a new idea or tool to move forward. Dr Lou always provides at least one nugget of advice or piece of information that I can immediately apply. I always feel like he has listened to me, understands my core values, and then shines a light on a doable next step.

Reviewed December 2024

He listens well and offers lots of great advice.

Reviewed August 2024

Dr. Bordisso has been an exceptional therapist for me. His expertise is evident in his attentive listening, insightful questions, and ability to pinpoint core issues. He consistently provides valuable guidance during sessions, and even shares relevant articles afterwards to reinforce our discussions. Dr. Bordisso's genuine care for my progress, combined with his professional skills, has empowered me to make positive and lasting changes. These changes have led to stronger relationships, reduced stress, and a more fulfilling life. Thank you, Dr. Bordisso!

Reviewed July 2024

Dr. Bordisso is very kind and knowledgeable. Thank you and look forward to our next session.

Reviewed June 2024

Trustworthy Dr! Who listens and cares about his patients

Reviewed May 2024

I'm writing to enthusiastically recommend Dr. Bordisso as a therapist. He's been instrumental in helping me gain self-awareness and navigate personal challenges in a positive way. Dr. Bordisso is not only a highly intelligent and knowledgeable therapist, but he also possesses exceptional qualities that make him truly outstanding. He's an empathetic and active listener who seems to understand my concerns even before I fully express them. Most importantly, his genuine care shines through - it's clear Dr. Bordisso prioritizes the best possible outcomes for his clients, and I have no doubt that extends to everyone he works with. Beyond the sessions themselves, Dr. Bordisso takes a comprehensive approach by following up with helpful articles and suggestions tailored specifically to me. This has significantly boosted my confidence in tackling issues that once felt overwhelming. If you're seeking a therapist who is both brilliant and deeply caring, look no further than Dr. Bordisso!

Reviewed March 2024

Dr. Bordisso seems to have a firm grasp on my mental health complications, and takes that into account when making recommendations. I have come to trust him more than any of the other therapists I've been too.

Reviewed March 2024

Such a kind individual who understands your issues and will help you work through them!

Reviewed July 2023

Very knowledgeable and very easy to talk to!

Reviewed January 2024

Growing up in an alcoholic/divorced family, I've engaged with a number of counselors throughout the years (I'm older.) Unfortunately, too many were not right for me. And, from my experiences, finding the right therapist for your needs and personality is vital. Because BetterHelp's questionnaires are used to match you with the best therapist and because you're allowed to change therapists at any time, no questions asked, I found my fit on the second try. Dr. Bordisso is talented, knowledgeable, thoughtful, client-centered, caring. In a very short period of time, he has has helped me adjust my perspective on a challenging situation that has plagued me for a number of years. I am forever grateful to Dr. Bordisso!

Reviewed November 2023

Lou has a wealth of wisdom and a wealth of empathy. I always feel refreshed and more hopeful after a session with him. Thank you Lou, for everything.

Reviewed December 2023

Dr. Bordisso is a compassionate, professional, knowledgeable therapist who has been an immense help to me. He not only listens intently but also gives balanced advice that has been followed up by beneficial articles. I have more peace of mind since I've been meeting with Dr. Bordisso, and that means a great deal!

Reviewed August 2023

Very understanding , kind and positive .

Reviewed August 2023

Dr. Bordisso has an incredibly philosophical and logical approach to therapy that is refreshing and incredibly helpful to someone who prefers a bit more of a scientific approach. He does a great job of helping navigate the rational space without forgetting about how emotions are affecting it. It's a rare balance I haven't had in most therapists, who tend to be further invested in the emotional processing side. In addition, he always shows care in what I'm saying and never makes me feel judged or dumb for anything I say or expressed. Absolutely incredibly therapist!

Reviewed July 2023

Lou is great! So helpful, thoughtful and speaks my language!

Reviewed June 2023

Lou is amazing. Honestly understands how to talk through things with me. He can pivot quickly to metaphors that relate to me and knows when to push on issues and when to help me reflect on others. He’s the best therapist I’ve ever had. I’ve made more progress in the last few months than I have in years of therapy before this

Reviewed June 2023

Dr. Bordisso is a very kind Doctor and listens well.

Reviewed April 2023

My therapist is extremely kind and knowledgeable and listens well.

Reviewed September 2022

Dr. Bordisso helps me with my stress and my anxiety. He helps me with my thoughts so I can minimize the conflicts I have with others

Reviewed August 2022

Dr. Bordisso was very informative and engaging.

Reviewed August 2022

Dr Lou is a very good therapist. He affirms my dignity and worth. Encourages honest communication and provides timely, accurate feedback. Good rapport and encourages independence and competence.

Reviewed August 2022

My first impression was blown away beyond all expectations. Can not wait to see how he helps me in the near future!

Reviewed July 2022

Dr. Lou is a thoughtful and reliable professional who makes going to therapy easy. Highly recommend to anyone starting their journey with therapy!

Reviewed June 2022

This therapist was not at all helpful to me, it just infuriates me and makes me realize that this is why I keep leaving therapy. Short sessions, rushed ending, no willingness to actually communicate like a human, but to just throw out some hot button terms at me. Fuck this.

Reviewed June 2022

He is the best, just wish the connection wifi would be better so we don’t go over time and we both get in everything we have to say

Reviewed April 2022

Dr. Bordisso is a very good listener and is offer’s helpful advice.

Reviewed April 2022

He’s great!

Reviewed March 2022

Just Started my first session today with Dr. Bordisso, and he was really helpful. He listened to what i was saying and gave me positive solutions to some of my problems. I'm excited to keep working with him.

Reviewed January 2022

Glad Lou was available to listen and respond to me. Much Appreciated his expertise.

Reviewed January 2022

I really like Dr. Bordisso's therapy style and I had multiple therapists in my life but I think he did a really great job in understanding the issues and I could tell that he was experienced in his field - I had to cancel my subscription because I am moving into a new city and settling down costs a lot but I am excited to work with him in the future if possible.

Reviewed January 2022

Dr. Lou has been an absolute great asset to me during my time this year with better help. I understand it is necessary for Dr. Lou to have a safe recovery regarding his health, however I am finding it difficult to get on appointments with him otherwise since he had to cancel other than his help. I do wish I had more time to speak with him in a designated our frame like I did with my previous counselor. My mental health still is at stake and I do wish to continue with him after he recovers but again finances have been really tricky and I really hate to be spending money when I don’t have responses from my counselor in the past couple weeks and getting on a solid schedule. Aside from his health I really do hate to have to switch again in the meantime if I could please speak to somebody from the better health team on how to go about my current needs on how to pick my next counselor that would be great. My grandma had recently passed away I am overwhelmed with finding a stable job and getting my confidence back and I’m also feeling pressure internally on doing better and being on my own but at the same time I love my family but they do get on my nerves and kind of feel negative vibes around them when I deep down want to do better and be my own cheerleader and feel like they are pulling me back as im trying to positively motivate myself to move forward and onward. Anybody who can challenge me to find happiness in all that I do and feel confident would be great at this time. Thank you

Reviewed November 2021

Dr. Bordisso is very kind and helpful.

Reviewed November 2021

Dr. Bordisso has been a great help, great listener and helped me get through a very difficult time of my life! Strongly recommend to people dealing with anxiety

Reviewed September 2021

Dr. Bordisso is a kind, gentle soul, and the most enthused listener I have ever encountered! He is patient and consistent, caring and invested in your progress. You'll have a kind voice to guide you along, just as I have. A long journey is a long shorter with a companion and a story.

Reviewed September 2021

Dr. Bordisso has been absolutely amazing. I have had short stints with therapist in the past but I have never had such a great connection. He is easy to talk to, respectful and funny. I am so grateful to have such a strong pillar of support in these weird times.

Reviewed July 2021

I find de Bordisso professional, attentive and compassionate

Reviewed June 2021

Dr. Bordisso is a great listener and am able to find common ground with him.

Reviewed April 2021

He follows up with me even when I went absent for a while

Reviewed March 2021

Dr. Lou has been more like a trusted mentor to me than any other therapist I’ve ever had. His compassion for my fragilities is incomparable. I can not thank him enough for the services he provides for me. His wisdom is beyond what I can convey gratitude for!

Reviewed March 2021

Dr. Bordisso, is kind and genuine. He really cares about my issues and consistently works to help me find solutions

Reviewed February 2021

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Frequently asked questions

Does Dr. Lou Bordisso offer telehealth visits?

Yes. Dr. Lou Bordisso works with clients by exchanging messages, chatting live, speaking over the phone, or video conferencing based on what works for the client at that particular time.

What language(s) does Dr. Lou Bordisso speak?

Dr. Lou Bordisso speaks English.

How many years of experience does Dr. Lou Bordisso have?

Dr. Lou Bordisso has 35 years of experience.

Where is Dr. Lou Bordisso licensed to practice?

Dr. Lou Bordisso is licensed to practice in California.

Does Dr. Lou Bordisso accept clients outside of the United States?

Yes, Dr. Lou Bordisso accepts clients outside of the United States.

Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?

Numerous studies support the effectiveness of online platforms in facilitating life changes. For instance, research published by JMIR Publications, conducted by teams from the University of Berkeley, UCSF, and SF General Hospital, found that "users of BetterHelp experienced significantly reduced depression symptom severity after engaging with the platform."

What treatment approaches does Dr. Lou Bordisso offer?

Dr. Lou Bordisso offers clients Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Existential Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, and Solution-Focused Therapy.

How can I communicate with Dr. Lou Bordisso?

Dr. Lou Bordisso can be engaged in any one of four ways: (1) Exchanging messages, (2) chatting live, (3) speaking over the phone, or (4) video conferencing. You can use different ways at different times as you wish, based on your needs, availability, and convenience.

How do I get started with Dr. Lou Bordisso?

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