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Harold "Lanny" Monson, LMFT

Experienced mental health professional

Provides online counseling through BetterHelp

At a glance

Harold is an experienced, licensed Mental Health Professional who specializes in affordable online therapy offered through our partner, BetterHelp.

5.0 stars
Clients are very satisfied with Harold. View 14 reviews
Speaks English
Offers Telehealth visits
Licensed in Utah, Washington, and 1 more

Recent reviews

I love Lanny and am glad I found this service during a difficult time.

Reviewed December 2021

Harold was my therapist for a while when I was at a really low point with my confidence, he helped me understand myself in different ways I never even thought of and showed me ways to better myself and give myself the self confidence and self love I needed and helped me overcome my hyper-dependence on people

Reviewed December 2023

More about Harold

  • 25 years' experience
  • Male
  • LMFT

I am a Marriage and Family Therapist. I've had a lot of diverse life experience and never get tired of the complexity of people and their relationships with each other. A lot of my work has been with persons who have suffered sexual and physical trauma. I've worked with those who struggle with substance abuse. I've visited many cultures and immersed myself in some to gain better understanding of homelessness and some of the unique challenges persons of color face. Despite the differences between people, it's interesting how many unsung heroes there are, and how rarely they realize it.

I've worked with ADHD, OCD and autistic spectrum issues. I have a lot of empathy and compassion for people, especially those who feel somewhat powerless. I've always been interested in what motivates people's behavior.

I have a lot of empathy for those who are down-trodden. I've been fervently involved in seeking openness and respect in society. I've worked hard to protect children in abusive situations. I've worked to intervene on behalf of and to protect people of color and LGBTQ+ people who have been unfairly treated. I've worked with groups to reach out more effectively to underserved populations.

I worked on a secured Military Base with a civilian and military population as Family Advocacy Program Manager. I worked for 15 years with inmates of correctional facilities as a professional therapist volunteer. I worked for 10 years with men and women as a professional therapist with substance abuse issues. For the same amount of time I worked with domestic violence offenders and survivors. I worked for three years with survivors of sexual assault. I worked for five years with men with sexual assault offenses.

I have a Bachelor of Science from Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah. Later in life, I graduated with an MS in Family and Human Development from Utah State University in Logan, Utah. In 2004 I graduated with a Post-Master's Certificate in Marriage and Family Therapy from Saint Mary's University in Minneapolis, Minnesota. I became licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist, and then later became certified as an approved supervisor with the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy where I am a clinical fellow.

In the 1980's as I did volunteer work for the Women and Children in Crisis Center in Provo Utah, I developed a theory I called, "Displaced Power." I use that theory to help people who feel powerless. It has seemed to me that almost anyone who comes to therapy for almost any reason feels some powerlessness. I like to help people make a shift from what I call "displaced power" toward "the power within." I help them regain or gain a sense of control over their own lives. This process has been very helpful to me personally, and many clients have complimented me on my ability to give them greater hope and a sense of their sense of being able to take more effective control of their lives. "The Power Within" is the name of my private practice.

Specialties

Relationship issues Family conflicts Parenting issues Anger management Self esteem Stress Anxiety Addictions LGBT Trauma and abuse Grief Intimacy-related issues Eating disorders Career difficulties Bipolar disorder Depression Coping with life changes Compassion fatigue ADHD Abandonment Aging and geriatric issues Antisocial personality Attachment issues Autism and Asperger Syndrome Avoidant personality Blended family issues Body image Cancer Chronic pain, illness, and disability Co-morbidity Codependency Commitment issues Communication problems Control issues Dependent personality Dissociation Divorce and separation Domestic violence Drug and alcohol addiction Family of origin issues Family problems Fatherhood issues Forgiveness Gender dysphoria Guilt and shame Hearing impaired HIV / AIDS Hoarding Hospice and end-of-life counseling Impulsivity Infidelity Intellectual disability Isolation / loneliness Jealousy Men's issues Midlife crisis Veteran and Armed Forces Issues Money and financial issues Mood disorders Multicultural concerns Narcissism Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD Panic disorder and panic attacks Paranoia Personality disorders Phobias Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships Postpartum depression Post-traumatic stress Pregnancy and childbirth Prejudice and discrimination Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling) Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) Self-harm Self-love Sex addiction Sexual assault and abuse Sexual dysfunction Sexuality Smoking / vaping cessation Social anxiety and phobia Traumatic brain injury Trichotillomania Women's issues Workplace issues Young adult issues

Treatment Approaches

  • Client-Centered Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Gottman Method
  • Mindfulness Therapy
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Solution-Focused Therapy
  • Trauma-Focused Therapy
  • Internal Family Systems

Licenses

Harold "Lanny" Monson's National Provider Identifier (NPI) is 1134348618.

  • LMFT · Utah · 5788419-3902 · Expires September 2026
  • LMFT · Washington · LF61263076 · Expires March 2025
  • LMFT · Arizona · LMFT-15973 · Expires May 2025

About online counseling

Affordable.
Pay a low flat fee.
Convenient.
Do it at your own time and at your own pace. Communicate whenever you feel it's needed.
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There is no waiting list and no calls to make. Simply fill out a short questionnaire and send your first message.

Online counseling allows you to receive care from a mental health practitioner via phone, video chat, or instant messaging. It is convenient for those who may have trouble getting to or would prefer not to have in-person therapy appointments. Starting at $65 per week, online counseling is generally more affordable than in-person counseling. A study by researchers at University of California, Berkeley found that online counseling can be just as effective as face-to-face therapy while being more convenient, affordable, and accessible.

Reviews for Harold "Lanny" Monson

All reviews have been submitted by clients after seeing the provider.

Overall rating:

5.0

14 reviews

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Clients mention: Great Helped Grateful Support Confidence Fantastic Helpful The best Attentive Caring

I love Lanny and am glad I found this service during a difficult time.

Reviewed December 2021

Harold was my therapist for a while when I was at a really low point with my confidence, he helped me understand myself in different ways I never even thought of and showed me ways to better myself and give myself the self confidence and self love I needed and helped me overcome my hyper-dependence on people

Reviewed December 2023

The expert upon experts. Teacher to teachers. Wise and helpful. Hard to find anyone more experienced.

Reviewed September 2023

He's steady and constant at being a caring friend and support. Am going to be pushing more though on having goals and assignments and I want more in-depth information on cause and methods for my problems beyond mindfulness because I feel we both get off track I go into a tangent about the same old thing that's stuck in my head and we end up have a friendly chat or vent instead of him helping me learn not to do that and working more directly on stuff I need to get done and he always recommends the same stuff. I think I need a little more variety and help staying on track.

Reviewed September 2022

Very Patient and Open-Minded

Reviewed March 2022

Having worked with Lanny weekly for a year, I can honestly say he is one of the best therapists I have ever had. He has the ability to identify what strategies for conversation work best for someone and tailor sessions accordingly. For example, upon recognizing I respond well to logic and science, Lanny explained concepts in a way that I really understood. He also went out of his way to provide a wealth of guidance via messaging in between our sessions. Even though I never got around to responding, these little motivational messages always seemed to help get me through tough times. I came into therapy not really knowing what to tackle, just that I did not feel good, and have since seen my mental health improve drastically and feel equipped with the "power within" to better handle whatever life brings. I am forever grateful for Lanny's support!

Reviewed March 2022

Lanny has helped me through the hardest moments of my life, and has shown me how to balance my emotions and rational thoughts in ways I never even thought of in my years of prior therapy. I've felt more liberated from my insecurities and emotions and other's opinions of me in the months we've worked together than any time before in my life. If you want someone that will always have your back and communicate with you in a way you can hear what you need to hear, Lanny is the therapist for you.

Reviewed January 2022

Lanny is the best therapist I have ever had. I can be completely open and honest, and almost anything that I've been through or want to talk about he has had experience with and can really give me detailed advice. If he doesn't, he'll do research and come back to the next session with new ideas and knowledge. He is fantastic at staying neutral and giving an unbiased point of view, but without making it seem like he is disinterested or uninvested in you and your progress. I'm very grateful that I was matched with him, and know that I have a safe place I can go to say whatever I need to say. He is a wonderful man, and a fantastic therapist.

Reviewed January 2022

Harold is extremely good at what he does. He has helped me considerably on several topics. I can't recommend him highly enough.

Reviewed September 2021

If I’m being honest I didn’t expect to like Better Help this much. I’m especially surprised with how well they matched me with a counselor. When I read my counselor’s introduction and then met for our first session It fell comforting to know they were ready to provide support. I don’t plan on leaving better help any time soon.

Reviewed July 2021

A kind soul. He really wants to help me. He is there for you.

Reviewed July 2021

He is great. He is a great listener and very attentive to my needs. I can tell that he genuinely cares about me and wants to help me get into a better spot and cope with my last issues. I am grateful for the time we have been talking he is great!

Reviewed June 2021

Mr. Monson is a great counselor and really cares about his clients.

Reviewed May 2021

I look forward to talking to Lanny every week and always wish we had time to continue the conversation. I value his experience - both as a therapist and simply his life experience that he often draws on to provide examples that are very helpful. Before Lanny, I tried other therapists but always dreaded it and never left with the same feeling of perspective that I get from Lanny. I feel so fortunate to have been connected with him!

Reviewed March 2021

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Frequently asked questions

Does Harold "Lanny" Monson offer telehealth visits?

Yes. Harold "Lanny" Monson works with clients by exchanging messages, chatting live, speaking over the phone, or video conferencing based on what works for the client at that particular time.

What language(s) does Harold "Lanny" Monson speak?

Harold "Lanny" Monson speaks English.

How many years of experience does Harold "Lanny" Monson have?

Harold "Lanny" Monson has 25 years of experience.

Where is Harold "Lanny" Monson licensed to practice?

Harold "Lanny" Monson is licensed to practice in Utah, Washington, and Arizona.

Does Harold "Lanny" Monson accept clients outside of the United States?

Yes, Harold "Lanny" Monson accepts clients outside of the United States.

Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?

Numerous studies support the effectiveness of online platforms in facilitating life changes. For instance, research published by JMIR Publications, conducted by teams from the University of Berkeley, UCSF, and SF General Hospital, found that "users of BetterHelp experienced significantly reduced depression symptom severity after engaging with the platform."

What treatment approaches does Harold "Lanny" Monson offer?

Harold "Lanny" Monson offers clients Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method, Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, and Internal Family Systems.

How can I communicate with Harold "Lanny" Monson?

Harold "Lanny" Monson can be engaged in any one of four ways: (1) Exchanging messages, (2) chatting live, (3) speaking over the phone, or (4) video conferencing. You can use different ways at different times as you wish, based on your needs, availability, and convenience.

How do I get started with Harold "Lanny" Monson?

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